Showing posts with label christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label christmas. Show all posts

Sunday, June 14, 2015

First world problems

Original post:  Jan 7, 2014

Over the Christmas holiday, there were many angry and frustrated customers who were told that the packages they had expected to arrive by Christmas eve did not make it on time. Both UPS and FedEx experienced problems with their deliveries. They were overwhelmed by an unexpected surge of last-minute orders and could not get them delivered as promised.

As the refunds and apologies flowed, there also began a groundswell against the victims. Many people declared that they were also at fault for their poor planning or trusting in the promises of the merchants. Virginia Postrel at Bloomberg Online offers a different opinion in her article, "Two Cheers for 'First World Problems'".

A "First World" problem is an inconvenience as opposed to a life-threatening situation. Cholera and malaria strike in the developing world. First world problems are annoyances like bad wi-fi connections or no parking spaces at the mall. Ms. Postrel argues that these complaints are actually positive indicators of progress:

Now think about the Christmas deliveries. Is it reasonable to expect gifts ordered from Amazon.com on Dec. 23 to arrive at your grandkids’ house across the country on Dec. 24? A generation ago no one would have thought so. No one would have expected a mail order to be delivered overnight, especially during the Christmas rush. Just getting it out of the warehouse would have taken a few days. But that has changed....

It took years of sustained efforts by online retailers and delivery services to make overnight orders realistic. It also took dissatisfaction: insanely demanding companies working to please insanely demanding customers -- or, in some cases, to offer customers services they hadn’t even thought to ask for -- as each improvement revealed new sources of discontent.

She goes on to explain that since nothing is perfect, it is natural to expect (and possibly demand) change.

Rising expectations aren’t a sign of immature “entitlement.” They’re a sign of progress -- and the wellspring of future advances. The same ridiculous discontent that says Starbucks ought to offer vegan pumpkin lattes created Starbucks in the first place. Two centuries of refusing to be satisfied produced the long series of innovations that turned hunger from a near-universal human condition into a “third world problem.”

Complaining about small annoyances can be demoralizing and obnoxious, but demanding complacency is worse. The trick is to simultaneously remember how much life has improved while acknowledging how it could be better.

May all your problems be First World!

Why wanting is sometimes better than having

Original post:  Dec 23, 2013

Christmas is nearly here. My boys are filled with anticipation. They have asked for many things; they secretly desire many more. Ironically, they are passing through the time of year when they have already received many of the items on their wish lists. My younger son celebrates his birthday in October. My older boy has a birthday in early December. To be honest, they haven't even opened all of the toys they got from those celebrations!

I ran across an interesting article that discusses the psychology of our consumer society. We are bombarded with constant messages to buy more and to buy today. It's easy to get caught up in the madness. The article explains that what we truly crave often does not come down to specific items. Rather, it is the experience of shopping itself (coupled with the anticipation of the acquisition of the item) that is the true reward for most shoppers. It helps to explain why there is such a feeling of accomplishment when you acquire that thing that you so desperately desired at a special discounted price.


I decided to go in a slightly different direction this year. When my wife wanted to know what I would like for Christmas, I asked her to work with the boys. They had worked on a project for the open house at their school where they created crafts which showed who they were. I thought it would be nice if they shared three secret things about themselves that they thought I should know. I'm really looking forward to what they have put together.

I hope that your time with your family and friends is peaceful and joyous!