Showing posts with label anticipation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anticipation. Show all posts

Sunday, June 14, 2015

Anticipation

Original post:  Jun 13, 2014

With the summer months rapidly approaching, thoughts immediately turn towards time away from the office. While it can be great to be on vacation, there are many trips where you feel as if you need a few days off to recover from the exhausting task of enjoying yourself!

Although it is great to be on holiday, it turns out that scientific research seems to indicate that we derive more pleasure from the anticipation of a trip (as opposed to the actual trip itself)! I found this result rather surprising. I suppose it has something to do with the difference between potential and reality. The future promise of the trip may help us navigate the day-to-day drudgery in a slightly less painful way. Perhaps is also relies on the fact that all trips go well when they are only in our minds...

Stephanie Rosenbloom in the NY Times discusses some of the science behind these findings:

....a psychological study about the connection between anticipation and happiness was published online in a journal called Applied Research in Quality of Life. The authors of the study, researchers from the Netherlands, interviewed more than 1,500 people, including 974 vacationers, and found that the vacationers felt most happy before their trips.

She goes on to give some practical advice on ways to help make your anticipation even more fulfilling:

Turns out, there is an art to anticipation. Savoring, said Elizabeth Dunn, an associate professor of psychology at the University of British Columbia and a leading happiness researcher, is an active, not passive, process. “It’s better to immerse yourself,” she said. Reading novels and poetry, watching films and television programs, browsing fashion and design blogs that are either from or about the place you plan to visit encourages you to not only learn about your destination, but to dream, providing some concrete details for your mind to latch on to. It may sound counterintuitive, but this building up of positive expectations and excitement actually helps our minds smooth over any minor discrepancies if reality doesn’t quite measure up to the fantasy. “We’re less likely to be bothered by these little holes if we build up our expectations ahead of time,” Professor Dunn said. “So go ahead and assume it’s going to be wonderful.”

She closes with a comparison between anticipation and reminiscing:

But what about the joy of reminiscing? Doesn’t that also create happiness? Researchers say yes, but anticipating the future delivers more happiness than reflecting on the past. One study, by Leaf Van Boven of the University of Colorado at Boulder and Laurence Ashworth of Queen’s University published in The Journal of Experimental Psychology in 2007, found that students felt happier while anticipating a vacation than while reminiscing about the vacation.

Why wanting is sometimes better than having

Original post:  Dec 23, 2013

Christmas is nearly here. My boys are filled with anticipation. They have asked for many things; they secretly desire many more. Ironically, they are passing through the time of year when they have already received many of the items on their wish lists. My younger son celebrates his birthday in October. My older boy has a birthday in early December. To be honest, they haven't even opened all of the toys they got from those celebrations!

I ran across an interesting article that discusses the psychology of our consumer society. We are bombarded with constant messages to buy more and to buy today. It's easy to get caught up in the madness. The article explains that what we truly crave often does not come down to specific items. Rather, it is the experience of shopping itself (coupled with the anticipation of the acquisition of the item) that is the true reward for most shoppers. It helps to explain why there is such a feeling of accomplishment when you acquire that thing that you so desperately desired at a special discounted price.


I decided to go in a slightly different direction this year. When my wife wanted to know what I would like for Christmas, I asked her to work with the boys. They had worked on a project for the open house at their school where they created crafts which showed who they were. I thought it would be nice if they shared three secret things about themselves that they thought I should know. I'm really looking forward to what they have put together.

I hope that your time with your family and friends is peaceful and joyous!